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What makes you feel the most loved?

Miley Cyrus released her new single titled ‘Flowers’ the other day. While we rave about its musicality and all the records it broke, what that song inspired me to look at, was the way people love and feel loved. I was talking to my best friend about how singleness can really get to people in their 20s. And I said, “I want to be loved the way I love people”. Cue this song, and it hit me...I have never gotten flowers! Yes, I can buy myself flowers, but what does it feel like to receive flowers? I really don’t know. This realization that I may have never received love the way I wanted to be loved (especially in romantic relationships) made me think about this fundamental question ‘What makes us feel loved?’ In my attempt to understand what makes me feel the most loved and validated, I thought of an idea that might help you, if you are someone like me, looking for love or in love. Let’s go the good-old route, shall we? Step 1: Read I have spoken about the five love languages b...