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Thirty days since…

It’s been exactly a month since I made one of the most crucial decisions of my life. I stood in front of (what felt like a billion) people facing God and promised to have and to hold this one man for life! That was day 0. Thirty days later, I have things to say. Lessons I learnt; the life I gained. But first – some facts: 1. Mine was an arranged love marriage that took more than a year to make, giving me and my partner ample time to get to know each other and for our parents to bond. 2. Both of us were raised in similar life circumstances, allowing us to relate and agree to many aspects of leading life. 3. Since our first meeting, we have intentionally discussed our family, career and life goals.   4. Our priority was to allow our families to take the lead in planning the wedding which saved us as a couple enough time and space to focus on life after the wedding day. The wedding day was fun, extremely eventful to say the least. But thirty days into the reminiscence, here are a ...